PoloNPearls

 THE blog for female transformation.   Back in the mid to late 1990's, I was living in a big city, working multiple jobs like a good little feminist (although our version of "feminist" looks nothing like today's version), dating- it was just as much of a nightmare back then as it is now- and wondering if and when it would all pay off. Clearly the men in my socioeconomic group had not received, or if they did they had not read- the memo to be high earners (RM- rich men). Many still wore ball caps as if they were fedoras. They dressed and acted like man-children. T-shirts with skinny jeans. If it was an important event they broke out the collared shirt. Seeing a man in a suit was as rare for me as an eclipse. I was quite excited to learn one day that some of the offices in our floor of the high rise were rented out to a group of attorneys. Men in suits!     Things didn't go as planned, so I eventually moved back to the small town I had left in search of fortune an...